IT'S BUSY. WE KNOW.
IT'S BUSY. WE KNOW.
But that doesn't mean the holidays have to fly by with feelings of overwhelm and rush. Let's savor. Let's reflect. And let's feel.
We've thought of eight ways you can ensure a joy filled holiday, even for the planner/housekeeper/cook/baker/hostess.
1. Embrace Planning and Delegation
Plan Early: Write out your menu, shopping list, and timeline for preparation.
Delegate Tasks: Involve family or friends in cooking, decorating, or table setting. Delegation is leadership, not weakness.
Simplify When Necessary: Focus on a few show-stopping dishes instead of feeling pressured to make everything from scratch.
2. Create a Warm, Welcoming Environment
Set the Tone: Use soft lighting, warm decor, and music to create an inviting atmosphere.
Personal Touch: Add handwritten place cards or small gratitude notes for each guest to make them feel special.
Comfort First: Consider dietary preferences and comfortable seating for all ages and abilities.
3. Infuse Gratitude Throughout the Day
Start with Gratitude: Take a moment before the day begins to reflect or pray, grounding yourself in thankfulness.
Share at the Table: Encourage guests to share something they’re grateful for during the meal.
Write It Down: Provide a "Gratitude Jar" where guests can write and deposit notes of thanks. Share them after dinner or save them for next year.
4. Practice Self-Care Amid the Hustle
Set Realistic Expectations: Perfection isn’t the goal—connection is.
Take Breaks: Carve out time to breathe, refresh, and even sneak in a quick workout or moment alone.
Outsource: Buy pre-made items or accept help with cleanup if it lightens your load.
5. Involve the Next Generation
Teach as You Go: Involve daughters, nieces, or young women in your preparation. Show them the joy of hosting and creating.
Assign Fun Jobs: Give them age-appropriate responsibilities, like making a centerpiece or helping to serve.
6. Make It About Connection, Not Perfection
Focus on People: Be present with your guests and prioritize meaningful conversations over worrying about minor details.
Laugh at Mishaps: If something doesn’t go as planned, laugh and move on. Imperfection creates memories.
7. Celebrate Women and Their Contributions
Acknowledge Other Women: Use this time to reflect on the women who inspire or support you, whether family, friends, or mentors.
Toast to Growth: During the meal, make a toast celebrating the collective strength and growth of the women at your table.
8. End with Reflection
Quiet Gratitude: After the meal, take a moment alone or with a loved one to reflect on the day.
Pay It Forward: Plan ways to share the abundance of your Thanksgiving with others, like donating leftovers or volunteering at a shelter.
Thanksgiving is not just about serving a meal—it’s about serving others with love, grace, and a heart of gratitude. By modeling this mindset, you empower those around you to do the same. Let’s slow down and enjoy the holidays this year, ladies.
